The Universal Law of "As Within, So Without"
Your outside world is really an exact reflection of your inner world.
Whatever is presented to you in your life is how you feel on the inside. Your feelings create your reality.
If you are angry on the inside, you will find angry people in your life who are mirroring your anger back to you.
If you feel abandoned, people may leave you, withdraw emotionally.
If you beat yourself up with your thoughts or are self-critical, you will attract people who will reflect this by putting you down or even physically hurt you.
If you feel loved, safe, secure, and happy on the inside, you will have a safe, secure, and a happy life surrounded by people who love you.
Your inner integrity will be matched by those around you. The people in your life will be honest, creative, generous-hearted, or modest to the extent that you are.
Always remember that peace within leads to peace around you.
As within, so without.
So, if you wish to change something in your life, you must look within yourself to alter your attitudes and beliefs in order for your outer world to change.
Change yourself on the inside and watch your outer world change. You must make the change and not wait for others to change. To have something you have never had before, you must do something you have never done before.